Are Vaccinations Safe for My Child?

The majority of parents choose to vaccinate their children according to the standard doctor-recommend schedule; however, many parents still have questions about vaccination. If you are wondering whether vaccinating your child is safe, the answer is yes: the United States currently has the safest vaccine supply in history and millions of children safely receive their vaccines every year. A vaccine can prevent infections and diseases that would once kill or cause lasting harm to infants, children, and adults. An unvaccinated child is at risk for contracting diseases such as whooping cough and measles, which can cause severe illness, pain, disability, and even death. A vaccine uses extremely small amounts of antigens to help your child’s immune system learn to recognize and fight serious diseases. Antigens are parts of germs that activate the immune system. This allows your child to gain future protection from a disease without getting sick.

While some children do experience side effects from their vaccines, the main effects tend to be extremely mild and go away within a few days. Serious side effects, such as severe allergic reactions, are extremely rare and medical professionals are trained to handle them if they do occur. In addition, all legitimate scientific and medical studies into vaccinations have concluded that there is no link between vaccinations and autism.

The disease-prevention benefits of vaccinating your child far outweigh the possible side effects for the vast majority of children. The only exceptions are cases where a child has a strong allergic reaction to a previous vaccine dose, a serious chronic medical condition (such as cancer), or a disease that weakens the immune system.

Everybody Gets Mad: Helping Your Child Cope with Conflict

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Help Children to act Calm

Let them know that it takes more courage to walk away from a fight than to stay and fight.
Teach them that fights don't solve problems—they make new ones.
Remind them that when they get mad but don't fight, they have really won.

Sometimes, getting along with other kids is hard. Some kids:

Get into fights when they are angry.
Get teased a lot.
Encourage others to fight.

This can make your child feel bad or get in trouble. Teach your child how to deal with anger and stay out of trouble.

Everyone Gets Mad

Anger doesn't usually last a long time, but it is a very strong feeling when it happens.

Children get mad when:

Their feelings are hurt or they can't do what they want.
Others don't understand them or lie about them.
They feel left out or others don't act the way they want.

When children are mad, their bodies react:

Their hearts beat faster and their faces feel hot and sweaty.
It might be hard to breathe and they can't think clearly.
They have a lot of energy and want action.

When children are angry, it is:

Good to put their feelings into words.
Not good to hit someone, break things, or say things that hurt.

Teach your Child to act Calm

When children get mad, they can ACT:

Acknowledge.

Acknowledge angry feelings.
Notice changes in their bodies.

Calm down.

Breathe deeply, count to 10, or walk away.
Punch a pillow, run, or play music.

Think and talk.

Think about the problem and ways to fix it. If someone doesn't know what children are trying to say or do, they need to explain themselves.
Talk with someone about being mad and ways to fix the problem without fighting. If there is nobody to talk to right away, stop and think, "This is why I'm mad and what I need to do is ..."

If someone tries to start a fight, your child can be the one to stay CALM:

Calm down.

Keep a safe distance from the other person.
Take slow, deep breaths.
Stay alert and stand tall.

Avoid.

Avoid name-calling or returning insults. It only makes things worse.
Avoid other kids who may want to fight. Try to talk in private with the kid who wants to fight.

Listen.

Calmly listen to what the other kid says.
Ask, "What does this person really want?"

Move on.

Find ways to solve the problem without fighting.

Use humor. "I wouldn't want you to catch my cold."
Give a reason. "We'll both get thrown off the team if we fight."
Walk away. If nothing else works, it's best to walk away.

Children do what they see others do. You are your child's most important role model.

If your child is still having trouble getting along with other kids, talk with your pediatrician.